See if there is a person in your life that you have some resistance towards. See if you have been disapproving of that person. Very often one of the things that weighs us down and causes a lot of unhappiness and frustration during any time of the year, not only at the holidays, is holding and carrying judgments about ourselves, other people and past interactions with each other. If you have some disapproval or judgments about this person(s), maybe disagreements, or maybe they haven’t treated you so well. It’s important to get clear and realize that when you are holding that disapproval that judgment towards that person, you’re the one that gets to feel it, and it hasn’t felt good. It’s actually poisoning yourself with negativity from the inside out. The good news it’s a choice and you can decide something new now. Since it’s up to you now, could you let go of disapproving of that person, since it’s only been bringing you down.
Could you just decide you don’t need this disapproval energy you have held within? You don’t need to carry that negativity inside you any more, and let go of disapproving of them. It’s gotten you nowhere up to now, so could you try something new? What is important is what you do in your life from what has happened to you. Since it is up to you and since it is your choice could you decide to make a move towards LOVE. The way you got to feel lousy in carrying the disapproval energy, is the way you are going to feel so much better, even great, and loving when you let you let go of the past stories and memories holding you back. Everything in your world will reflect that change toward your loving.
So could you decide now since you are in charge of your own experiences; to give that person some approval, just for yourself? Could you just choose love a little bit more and get into positive and allow harmony? Just give it a shot. What would it feel like to just go ahead and love them instead? You’ll know how much better it feels to be in your power and decide to let it go–for your sake. You’ll enjoy your holidays so much better with everything and everyone in your life. Apply this to everyone that you are encountering, and to every situation that you are going to be encountering. Believe it or not we even disapprove of interactions, experiences, situations that we think we’re going to be in. You can turn around and decide to love those. Everything can be a joyous experience. Everything! Apply this to yourself.
Chances are there may even be some judgments that you have been holding towards yourself, and that’s going to hold you down and have less enjoyment during your holidays. Let go of the judgments that you have holding towards yourself and disapproval from the past. And give yourself the chance, a gift, to just love yourself unconditionally and see what happens. Life will turn around in your favor from this point on.
You’ll have the most wonderful Holiday Season ever, and life will bring you, gift you, with wonderful experiences.
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