“Courage is being scared to death..but saddling up anyway“. John Wayne
Have you reacted negatively when someone “pushed your buttons”? Or have you had the intention of approaching a stressful situation in your life with clarity and courageousness, but… as soon as you opened your mouth all the wrong stuff came out? What that means is, despite your best intentions, your ego is calling all the shots. That’s stress!!! It’s time to take back your control.
Another hit we get is when we don’t experience feeling secure; which shows up as NEVER reaching being healthy and happy. This is one of the two areas that determine WHO you believe you are. Everything in your life is determined by who you believe you are, and what you feel you are not.
The WRONG belief for this problem is, I’m not okay with myself, or I won’t be okay if this or that happens. The negative emotions are rejection, hurt, and fear. I have never known any person
with a significant problem, that did not have a rejection issue. Some psychosomatic disorders can occur from these problems. Just a few examples of these disorders are: Stress, hopelessness, non-realistic approach in life, mental fogginess, less confidence.
Much goes wrong when you’re off course feeling these disorders and negative emotions as just stated above. We forget our abilities and act from I don’t know, I can’t figure it out, how do I do it? It it futile to keep asking over and over again the same questions to your mind. If it knew the answers you would have had the answer already. You must go beyond the mind/ego to create balance and have your desires come into your reality.
A quote from the Universe that I love that sums this up so beautifully states:
“Dreams come true, that’s what they do. The only variable is when.
For the slow approach: Resist. Attach. Insist. Deny. Stop. Second guess. Whine. Argue. Defend. Protest. Cry. Struggle. And ask others, when you know the answer yourself.
For the quick approach: Visualize. Pretend. Prepare. Dodge. Roll. Serpentine. Do not waiver over intentions, but over methods. Show up, even when nothing happens. And give thanks in advance.
You knew that, The Universe” Mike Dooley, TUT.
The central nervous system – is the primary control system in the body for everything in your physical being. When you are calm and not erratic with your emotions (which reeks havoc on your nervous system) you can make better decisions. You’ll be more able and ready to take the ‘quick approach‘
Actor Jason Statham said: “Good judgement comes from experience and a lot of that comes from bad judgement”.
What we are all going towards in this life is: what can change lifetimes of puzzle pieces so we can clearly achieve the outcome of awareness…that allows the puzzle pieces to fall into place.”
Sharing deep insights that can break one free of their afflictions and beliefs in being tied to tribal or collective bonds; are the illusionary rules of what is thought of as the matrix of reality. A trust and knowing about “Source Self” will unshackle your co-creative abilities in a profound way. Trust in one’s self first will then produce trust in the right people that will assist your life in your endeavors.
By allowing yourself to get clear and be aware of what’s happening in and around you then
you can begin to see what has been hidden in plain sight …. right before your very eyes. Initially, cognitive dissonance and disbelief may ensue as new evidence (your new realizations) runs headstrong into outdated and stubborn beliefs. We tend to fight to keep that which doesn’t serve us in an attempt to feel secure. We do a lot of this unconsciously. By stating to yourself that you want to become clear, to know and to clarify to yourself, those outmoded patterns; shows your willingness to change and grow. Taking on this forward motion in your life brings about more self authenticity, honesty, and courage that can only bring about a happier life.
Masculine power, is the power to create things that can be controlled, Feminine Power is the power to manifest that which is beyond your control, including those things that your heart most yearns for: intimacy, creative expression, authentic community, harmony and sync with others, meaningful contribution, living your life’s purpose, authentic success and spiritual development.
Lack of confidence and fear of the future reek havoc with the mind/ego running the show. Should you become flexible enough to push aside the ego and you open your heart, beliefs can be upgraded to embrace powerful and revealing perspectives on Consciousness…(which is Infinite Intelligence, The God of your understanding); which will replace the life you are living now into a new light. That’s when you start on your new road.
In your old misunderstandings, you can be so close and yet so far. But when you begin the journey into a new higher level of transformation, you are like a child embracing the profound truth that deep down, you realize that what you have always been connected to, you can never separate yourself from. This is Source Intelligence, pure positive energy, truth and wisdom.
At this point you will have to work within that new understanding where growing pains may arise. That really is a gift. This gift stretches us, but it is the way we evolve. This is where the expression no pain, no gain, comes from. We are ever evolving beings. That is our human way.
The most positive direction for ones life is to see the truth of Consciousness in a new way. Live a new yet very old truth that of who you really are. Claim your birthright! We haven’t been taught to claim what is true for us. Many that we looked up to didn’t know how to to this as well. We come to these truths through growing pains. We have had family, society, education, tell us what to do and how to do it. In a very outward focused world; we can lose sight of our real nature within as well as with one of our greatest teachers, “Nature herself”
The opportunity comes to all of us many times to make that decision forward. If you don’t accept it; you go backwards and have to begin again from where you are and crawl back up from there. Because of this many of us come around and around to the same point or place in our lives with no forward progress. So we keep on going over the same problems until we say we have had enough and chose to do something different to reap different results.
To push forward and transcend is a standard in life. It’s how God pulls the strings of evolution. This can not be bypassed without taking a toll on ones physical and mental/emotional health, producing psychosomatic disorders.
We have free will to keep the old outdated ways or take the plunge into the unknown out of your comfort zone. You can become lazy and lethargic, and stuck on a boring merry-go-round never really accomplishing or giving of your talents. You may not even like yourself and therefore have lack of confidence issues. Small steps forward will lead to good results if you stay the course and not allow yourself to slip backwards when the going gets a little unsettling. What is emerging is a wiser higher version of yourself. Your experience and knowledge is worth a great deal. Feel good and honor yourself for taking the ride. You are developing and learning to incorporate these new states of being into your tool box for achieving happiness in your life. Experience is the greatest teacher and will serve you well as you live your life. It is said that life is a journey not a destination…Life is a constant journey of exploration. To live a meaningful life is to feel more secure, confident and happy. It’s also about the wealth you feel within which is your Inner Gold. And if you have read along this far…I know you are up for the task!
This can be your time to claim your upgrade and increase abundance in all areas of your life. This is a knowing deepening energy, not a dreaming imagining. This change forward is what starts turning your life around and places your life back on track.
Growing pains are at every stage of ones development; and we are forever changing beings. When things are constantly boring you might be ready for another stage of your life to begin. Begin upward-higher, accept and take the change. You must have courage and patience to see the new level within yourself grow and develop. If you decline your growth; then sad to say, you start again at stage one at the beginning again. The merry-go-round is a boring ride to continually play. Have the courage to move on to find your Inner Gold … recognize the good coming your way. Many times it shows up in disguise as something you don’t like occurring in your life. Look for the silver lining. It’s there!
Shifting Consciousness Part 3 is coming soon.
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Many Blessings,
Linda Crane
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